What Age Can I Leave My Children Home Alone?

By John Impemba, jimpemba@nbc26news.com

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It something almost every parent will have to decide. At what age do you decide to leave your child home without supervision?

Kids at daycare centers are under constant supervision because of their young age. Workers at the University Hospital Child Development Center do everything from helping them learn to watching them play.

But when they grow up, their parents will one day decide when to leave them home alone without supervision.

Director Sally Rich has some tips.

"If they're not comfortable enough in the house by themselves, then you don't need to leave them alone. If they're having nightmares or just uneasy about it, you don't leave them alone," said Rich.

Georgia law makes it pretty clear. Between the ages of 9 and 12, you can leave a child alone for up to two hours. Age 12 and up, no more than 12 hours at a time.

In South Carolina, there are no set laws, but officials say no child under 8 should be left alone.

The experts say the key is to prepare your child early to stay home alone... even as early as five years old and even though that decision may be several years away.

But for some, there is no hard and fast rule. It all depends on the maturity level of the child.

Brenda Wallace, a mother and daycare worker says "Some people have children as young as 10 or 11 who they know are mature enough to stay home alone. They know not to answer the phone and not to go to the door."

And some parents say don't leave children alone until they know how to handle an emergency. In short, child care workers urge parents to use simple common sense.

Tuesday, Jul 15 at 8:56 PM Fecia wrote ...

All have valid points but ti comes down to this:It is about the child, some children are much more mature than others. I belive that our culture is sheltering the children in our society keeping them afraid of growing up. I was a latch key kid and I did things that I wasn't supposed to do or told not to do from time to time. However, I also did things when she was home.Let's face it no kid is going to do every single little thing you tell them to do.Does that mean you can't trust them at all.

Saturday, Jul 5 at 1:13 AM chris wrote ...

I've just started leaving my child home for short periods, but i don't have that hard a time reading her and how she feels about it. I think that if you don't have a read on how your child reacts or will respond or be able to respond to an emergency, which i feel is really the issue here, then you probably need to spend some more time with them. Some days my girl is okay with it, and some days shes not. A parents intuition?? Is this type of thing still believed in?

Tuesday, Jul 1 at 2:33 PM R Pax wrote ...

http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm Here is the site to state laws

Tuesday, Jul 1 at 2:32 PM P Pax wrote ...

Actually NH dosent have a specific age set.

Saturday, Jun 28 at 8:40 PM Giggler wrote ...

It's always funny when someone tries to sound intelligent but then uses improper grammar or spelling. Honestly, how can you be an adequate guardian if a child's mastery of language excells beyond yours?

Friday, Jun 27 at 12:34 PM hannah wrote ...

I'm 10 and I've been staying home alone since I was 9. I never really get scared, but I guess it's a good idea to check and see if there are any sex offenders in your neighborhood. I live in Georgia and I think the rule really gives kids some freedom... Just thought you might want a kid's point of view.

Wednesday, Jun 11 at 7:09 PM Hobbit wrote ...

I come from Europe and was raised to understand the law there meant it is illegal to leave a child under 13 home alone. I have two kids 12 - 16 and I do leave them home alone, but never overnight or even late at night. They enjoy the independence but they also appreciate knowing that someone is coming home to nurture them. I was a latchkey kid and although I was old enough, the no-parent feeling when I got home quickly developed into an eating disorder to fill the emptiness.

Tuesday, Jun 10 at 3:48 AM Anonymous wrote ...

Nobody responded to this to this question regarding having checked their neighborhoods for sex offenders and/or felons. Smarten-up people. Where I'm from, we've limited where sex offenders can live just by using our brains and the law. They occupy one square block and God help them if they rove.

Monday, Jun 9 at 3:26 PM TO TERRY wrote ...

KIDS NEED SPACE TOO YA KNOW!! THEY ARE GONNA HATE YOU FOR NOT TRUSTING THEM ENOUGH TO STAY HOME ALONE!!! RETHINK YOUR ANSWER POINT OF VEIW...

Saturday, May 31 at 10:46 AM R Kelley wrote ...

There are very few states in the U.S. with legal minimum ages, but many state agencies have published guidelines (NH, Illinois, Maryland and Oregon are a few of the states with very specific ages). Typically 8 year olds and over can be left at home for up to several hours (usually after school before a parent gets home from work). 12 years old appears to be the most common recommendation. http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm provides a state by state comparison.

Thursday, Apr 10 at 9:48 PM Lori wrote ...

I have a mature son who is 11 years. he knows not to use stove mirowave answer unless it is parents, no going outside ect.. in CA they go by matury of the child my daughter who is 21 went home after school for 2 hours but also babysat for people. Georgia needs to revaluate the laws. Moved here from CA and People are very strange here. they expect so much from the children. Let the children be children. that is my theory.Am I wrong?

Wednesday, Mar 26 at 9:12 PM tired too! wrote ...

I am really tire of seeing all these kids left at home. I am a stay at home mom and these children are running the streets creating chaos in the neighborhood. We are not rich but we are making sacrifices to care for our children and its difficult. There is a 16, 11 & 9 year old group of kids who stay home across the street from me and they have all sorts of kids over there while mommy and daddy are out doing WHATEVER!! The noise is ridiculous and I am tired.

Monday, Mar 24 at 5:06 PM Mary wrote ...

I have three kids! Ages 10, 11 and 12. I myself leave my kids at home for one hour in the morning. I leave to go to work at 5:00am my kids sleep while I leave and my mother gets there at 6:00am to wake the kids up and help them get ready for school. I also let my children go home after school. They stay at my house from 3:30 to 6:30 and then I get home at 6:30. My kids do great! They stay in the house, they dont answer the phone unless the caller ID says its me or my mother. AM I WRONG ALSO!

Tuesday, Mar 4 at 2:11 AM Viki wrote ...

I grew up in Russia and it seems that there kids were expected to know most of the recomendations for 10-12 age kids by the time they start school at age 7. So I am wondering whether cultural expectations for kids affect their rate of maturity.

Monday, Jan 21 at 6:44 AM tired wrote ...

Issac, you may trust your child but I work and early shift and where many parents leave thier children alone for a few hours or even that hour and half from the school bus they are running harry carry through the neighborhood. When that 13 year old ends up with a baby or caught doing something they shouldnt you will be the one with the egg on their face. We all did things we shouldnt as kids. You not to just "teach" them responsibility, you need to enforce rules.

Thursday, Jan 10 at 8:16 PM Isaac wrote ...

Not sure what drugs Terry is on but 16-18???... That is the age where you are teaching your child independance, not resposibility!!! Terry needs to spend more time with there child... I feel if you dont start teaching your child responsibility at a very early age then you are only hurting them.. My child is 13 and has been home by himself for an hour and a 1/2 since he turned 11.. I have never had a problem.. I tried my best to teach him to be responsible for his actions and so far its working.

Wednesday, Nov 21 at 1:11 PM Terry wrote ...

The law is one thing, common sense is another. Anytime you leave anyone under 16-18 years of age at home alone you are taking a dangerous risk. That risk increases exponentially when that child is babysitting a sibling or has friends over. Avoid it.

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