What Age Can I Leave My Children Home Alone?

By John Impemba, jimpemba@nbc26news.com

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It something almost every parent will have to decide. At what age do you decide to leave your child home without supervision?

Kids at daycare centers are under constant supervision because of their young age. Workers at the University Hospital Child Development Center do everything from helping them learn to watching them play.

But when they grow up, their parents will one day decide when to leave them home alone without supervision.

Director Sally Rich has some tips.

"If they're not comfortable enough in the house by themselves, then you don't need to leave them alone. If they're having nightmares or just uneasy about it, you don't leave them alone," said Rich.

Georgia law makes it pretty clear. Between the ages of 9 and 12, you can leave a child alone for up to two hours. Age 12 and up, no more than 12 hours at a time.

In South Carolina, there are no set laws, but officials say no child under 8 should be left alone.

The experts say the key is to prepare your child early to stay home alone... even as early as five years old and even though that decision may be several years away.

But for some, there is no hard and fast rule. It all depends on the maturity level of the child.

Brenda Wallace, a mother and daycare worker says "Some people have children as young as 10 or 11 who they know are mature enough to stay home alone. They know not to answer the phone and not to go to the door."

And some parents say don't leave children alone until they know how to handle an emergency. In short, child care workers urge parents to use simple common sense.

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Wednesday, Nov 21 at 1:11 PM Terry wrote ...

The law is one thing, common sense is another. Anytime you leave anyone under 16-18 years of age at home alone you are taking a dangerous risk. That risk increases exponentially when that child is babysitting a sibling or has friends over. Avoid it.

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Thursday, Jan 10 at 8:16 PM Isaac wrote ...

Not sure what drugs Terry is on but 16-18???... That is the age where you are teaching your child independance, not resposibility!!! Terry needs to spend more time with there child... I feel if you dont start teaching your child responsibility at a very early age then you are only hurting them.. My child is 13 and has been home by himself for an hour and a 1/2 since he turned 11.. I have never had a problem.. I tried my best to teach him to be responsible for his actions and so far its working.

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Monday, Jan 21 at 6:44 AM tired wrote ...

Issac, you may trust your child but I work and early shift and where many parents leave thier children alone for a few hours or even that hour and half from the school bus they are running harry carry through the neighborhood. When that 13 year old ends up with a baby or caught doing something they shouldnt you will be the one with the egg on their face. We all did things we shouldnt as kids. You not to just "teach" them responsibility, you need to enforce rules.

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Tuesday, Mar 4 at 2:11 AM Viki wrote ...

I grew up in Russia and it seems that there kids were expected to know most of the recomendations for 10-12 age kids by the time they start school at age 7. So I am wondering whether cultural expectations for kids affect their rate of maturity.

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Monday, Mar 24 at 4:06 PM Mary wrote ...

I have three kids! Ages 10, 11 and 12. I myself leave my kids at home for one hour in the morning. I leave to go to work at 5:00am my kids sleep while I leave and my mother gets there at 6:00am to wake the kids up and help them get ready for school. I also let my children go home after school. They stay at my house from 3:30 to 6:30 and then I get home at 6:30. My kids do great! They stay in the house, they dont answer the phone unless the caller ID says its me or my mother. AM I WRONG ALSO!

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Wednesday, Mar 26 at 8:12 PM tired too! wrote ...

I am really tire of seeing all these kids left at home. I am a stay at home mom and these children are running the streets creating chaos in the neighborhood. We are not rich but we are making sacrifices to care for our children and its difficult. There is a 16, 11 & 9 year old group of kids who stay home across the street from me and they have all sorts of kids over there while mommy and daddy are out doing WHATEVER!! The noise is ridiculous and I am tired.

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Thursday, Apr 10 at 8:48 PM Lori wrote ...

I have a mature son who is 11 years. he knows not to use stove mirowave answer unless it is parents, no going outside ect.. in CA they go by matury of the child my daughter who is 21 went home after school for 2 hours but also babysat for people. Georgia needs to revaluate the laws. Moved here from CA and People are very strange here. they expect so much from the children. Let the children be children. that is my theory.Am I wrong?

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Saturday, May 31 at 9:46 AM R Kelley wrote ...

There are very few states in the U.S. with legal minimum ages, but many state agencies have published guidelines (NH, Illinois, Maryland and Oregon are a few of the states with very specific ages). Typically 8 year olds and over can be left at home for up to several hours (usually after school before a parent gets home from work). 12 years old appears to be the most common recommendation. http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm provides a state by state comparison.

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Monday, Jun 9 at 2:26 PM TO TERRY wrote ...

KIDS NEED SPACE TOO YA KNOW!! THEY ARE GONNA HATE YOU FOR NOT TRUSTING THEM ENOUGH TO STAY HOME ALONE!!! RETHINK YOUR ANSWER POINT OF VEIW...

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Tuesday, Jun 10 at 2:48 AM Anonymous wrote ...

Nobody responded to this to this question regarding having checked their neighborhoods for sex offenders and/or felons. Smarten-up people. Where I'm from, we've limited where sex offenders can live just by using our brains and the law. They occupy one square block and God help them if they rove.

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Wednesday, Jun 11 at 6:09 PM Hobbit wrote ...

I come from Europe and was raised to understand the law there meant it is illegal to leave a child under 13 home alone. I have two kids 12 - 16 and I do leave them home alone, but never overnight or even late at night. They enjoy the independence but they also appreciate knowing that someone is coming home to nurture them. I was a latchkey kid and although I was old enough, the no-parent feeling when I got home quickly developed into an eating disorder to fill the emptiness.

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Friday, Jun 27 at 11:34 AM hannah wrote ...

I'm 10 and I've been staying home alone since I was 9. I never really get scared, but I guess it's a good idea to check and see if there are any sex offenders in your neighborhood. I live in Georgia and I think the rule really gives kids some freedom... Just thought you might want a kid's point of view.

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Saturday, Jun 28 at 7:40 PM Giggler wrote ...

It's always funny when someone tries to sound intelligent but then uses improper grammar or spelling. Honestly, how can you be an adequate guardian if a child's mastery of language excells beyond yours?

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Tuesday, Jul 1 at 1:32 PM P Pax wrote ...

Actually NH dosent have a specific age set.

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Tuesday, Jul 1 at 1:33 PM R Pax wrote ...

http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm Here is the site to state laws

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Saturday, Jul 5 at 12:13 AM chris wrote ...

I've just started leaving my child home for short periods, but i don't have that hard a time reading her and how she feels about it. I think that if you don't have a read on how your child reacts or will respond or be able to respond to an emergency, which i feel is really the issue here, then you probably need to spend some more time with them. Some days my girl is okay with it, and some days shes not. A parents intuition?? Is this type of thing still believed in?

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Tuesday, Jul 15 at 7:56 PM Fecia wrote ...

All have valid points but ti comes down to this:It is about the child, some children are much more mature than others. I belive that our culture is sheltering the children in our society keeping them afraid of growing up. I was a latch key kid and I did things that I wasn't supposed to do or told not to do from time to time. However, I also did things when she was home.Let's face it no kid is going to do every single little thing you tell them to do.Does that mean you can't trust them at all.

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Monday, Jul 28 at 4:34 PM Barbara wrote ...

Sorry, Giggler, but "excells" only has one "l"---maybe you're the one that needs to brush up on the grammar/spelling!

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Saturday, Aug 9 at 7:54 PM Anonymous wrote ...

Barbara, I am so glad you called that jerk out. Good for you!

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Saturday, Aug 9 at 8:16 PM ken wrote ...

Isn't it amazing that people can conceive children, but they need "state" guidance fpr raising them. It is also amazing that we have let the "state" dictate at what age a child can be allowed to do something. When I was a child my mother had to work and we kids were home alone all day with no problems. Today the DA would probably try to file charges against her for child endangerment. Man how times have changed and not always for the better.

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Friday, Aug 15 at 6:29 AM augustayaya wrote ...

I would like to say this. Since all the high and mighty mothers hollier than thou(okay I can't spell,and for that I will burn in hell!)they need to go around and ask their neighors if they can watch their kids for FREE and that way the working mother don't have to worry about her kids left alone at home.But of course is a lot easier to pass judgment and put down the parents that they leave their kids for couple hrs alone than ACTUALLY do something to help.

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Tuesday, Aug 19 at 3:12 AM Army Soldier wrote ...

I have an 12yr old and a 7.5 yr old. I am being deployed to Iraq Dec. 01,2008. My best friend will be caring for my children while I am away. My daughter gets out of school @ 2:45pm and my son gets out @3:15pm. My daughter will get home before my son and they will be @ the house by themselves for 3.5 hrs by themselves. until my best friend gets home am I wrong for this. Would like to hear everyone's opinion.

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Tuesday, Aug 19 at 9:27 AM Sheri wrote ...

Why in the world would you think that a stay-at-home mom should watch your kids for FREE? Do you work for free? Watching kids is WORK. Feeding kids costs money. This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever seen! P.S. If you know it's spelled wrong, why not fix it?

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Wednesday, Aug 27 at 8:35 AM Rob wrote ...

Isn't John Impemba dead?

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Friday, Sep 5 at 4:33 AM glenda Brouillette wrote ...

John died some time ago

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Saturday, Sep 13 at 12:03 PM KC wrote ...

what do you think about leaving a 10yr old home alone with a 2yr old? i have a friend who always makes her 10yr old watch the baby and leaves them both home alone all the time. the husband thinks it is fine too. i'm not sure what i think about this.

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Tuesday, Oct 14 at 3:19 PM Terry wrote ...

Isaac, No, it was our neighbors that were on drugs. Things went well AS FAR AS YOU KNOW, but what if there HAD been a problem, would your 13 year old have been able to handle a real emergency? We didn't live in Utopia and had no illusions about the safety of unsupervised children. Sounds like "tired, too" might have been living in our neighborhood. You wouldn't believe the things the latch key children were up to. Much of it was criminal and law-abiding children were their targets.

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Thursday, Nov 6 at 10:55 AM Zoe wrote ...

Actually, what's even more sad and surprising than this article is the fact that Augusta residents can't spell or use correct grammar beyond the level of an elementary school child. Stop playing with the internet and go back to school. PLEASE.

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Sunday, Nov 16 at 9:05 PM Marie wrote ...

TO ARMY SOLDIER: First of all, what you are doing for our country is very admirable. Second, no you are not wrong for your children being alone for 3 1/2 hours until your friend gets home. You and your friend are both doing the best you can for the children, which is what matters. Good luck to you!!! And THANK YOU for serving our country!

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Friday, Jan 2 at 6:46 AM Debra wrote ...

The real question is this - can the child cope with an emergency when alone? Can he cope with a fire, especially if he wakes up and finds himself in a smoke-filled bedroom? If a younger child starts vomiting is there someone there to make sure he doesn't choke on his own vomit? If a child has an accident is there someone there to phone for the emergency services and capable of following their instructions until help arrives? Think of Madeleine McCann and her siblings - what happened there?

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Saturday, Jan 3 at 5:32 AM Vicki wrote ...

My son and his wife are gong to let thier 12 year old babysit their 3 year old at night while they go out. I am working otherwise I would babysit. I do not feel as if the 12 yr old is ready for this responsibilty as he has anger issues and has been in trouble at school and home with them. He even had to go to counseling for them. Does anyone have a suggestion for me to convince the parents he is not capable of this task?

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Wednesday, Jan 21 at 4:34 PM Tanglewood wrote ...

Most of the kids in our neighborhood are unsupervised even when the parents are home so it really doesn't matter whether the parents r home or not here.

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Sunday, Jan 25 at 11:54 PM nicole wrote ...

is it o.k. to let my son come home after school for one hour and a half until i get home from work? he keeps the doors locked and does not answer them, he has all my numbers, plus his grandparents numbers and one grandma lives 7 blocks away if there was an emergency. but there is a parent who will no longer give my son a ride home because he said DCFS is going to be called and he has 5 children of his own and can't be involved. i really didn;t think i was asking too much for him to give him a ri

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Wednesday, Feb 4 at 4:34 PM Rae-rae wrote ...

I will proudly say I leave my 8 year old alone for up to 2 hours at a time and not once have either of us had any issue or concern with this. She comes home, lets our dog out, locks the door, grabs a snack and does her homework. She calls if she has a question or concern or even simply wants to chat. And we're both comfortable and happy with this arrangement. If you can't trust your child by this age you're doing something wrong and they deserve better than that.

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Thursday, Feb 5 at 7:49 PM amber wrote ...

Would it be ok to leave my 7 year old home while I drop his father off at work 7 miles away

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Wednesday, Feb 25 at 11:41 AM ~*Miss K*~ wrote ...

Parents give your children some trust. Let them prove to you they can be trusted! I know they grow up quick but thats the thing they grow up quick so teach and let them learn early!

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Saturday, Mar 7 at 7:56 AM sonia wrote ...

havn't read all he comments ,my oldest son is 10 i would not leave him alone, my thing is what happens if something happens to me on my way out ,what would he do ,,,don't do it, i know we know what our children r capable of , they r not adults, why they can't go with you why do parents decide not to take their child just because the child for example doens't like grocery shopping make them come with you ,you r the adult after all, take them with you.. i disagree dont leav your kids alone

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Monday, Mar 9 at 1:03 PM never under 12. wrote ...

Most things happen under this age. The people across from where i use to live, left their boys 8 and 10 home alone. I caught them outside putting a lighter to a paint can. I ran outside and stopped them. I took the stuff away from them. When their parent got home I let her know what happened. I also told her to get them a sitter or i would let the police know. I'm not there to make friends at the cost of letting those kids die.

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Wednesday, Mar 11 at 2:29 PM Amanda wrote ...

I do not think a child under 13 should be left home alone for no amount of time.Im 19 and im a babysitter I charge about five dollars a hour and that five dollars may save you childs life.

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Friday, Mar 13 at 10:43 PM USCBelle wrote ...

I cringe at hearing parents leave children under 13 home alone. Their are predators out there that are not above watching and waiting for the perfect time to act. It has nothing to do with trust or confidence in parenting it is just common sense....

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Wednesday, Apr 29 at 4:59 PM Ethan Symons wrote ...

I just came back from school and my mom left this site on and i am 10 and my mom wont let me go straight home from monster club(free daycare)and i want to convince her that i can stay home for a while and by the way my mom let me stay home for FOUR hours but she wont let me stay for two please help!

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Tuesday, May 5 at 1:45 PM concerned for children wrote ...

does amyone watch the news and see what can happen to unsupervised children? some of these parents are justifing leaving young children home alone but they forget to mention the preditors that paray on left alone children...wake up people,tired of seeing missing children show up on the news because of neglegence of the parents...in most cases.

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Wednesday, May 20 at 1:31 PM TJ wrote ...

If people saw what I saw going on in my neighborhood during the day and after school, they would not leave their children home alone for any length of time. The latch-key girls across the street ended up pregnant and on drugs. The one next door's mom had to adopt her baby. The boy on the corner was burglarizing everyone's homes. You couldn't report them to their parents because they were recidivist offenders themselves! This is in a subdivision filled with retirees!

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Monday, Jun 1 at 10:45 AM Mother of 2 wrote ...

I have recently been leaving my 9 year old home alone. At times I'm worried but she does a wonderful job staying in the home and in her own room. We alert any family living near us that she is home and that if they notice any cars in the driveway they are to call me and check it out. We live down a family road that no one goes down unless you live on it. She is never alone for more then 3 hours and my 5 year old stays with me. Its for some kids but not all.I feel my child is very responsible....

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Tuesday, Jun 2 at 4:53 PM Trina wrote ...

I believe that you should not leave any youth below 16 home alone and probably not that age. Peolple these days and time are dangerous. Its not the same as when I grew up. People breaking in homes and sometime a serious crime is committed. You only have that child that can not be duplicated so cherish your child(s) life. Once their life is taken you can't get them back. I know times are hard for some but your child(s) life is more valuable! The world is not get'n better, it's worst! Don't do it!

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Thursday, Jun 4 at 6:48 PM Amy wrote ...

What about a 12 year old staying home, alone, with their 5 year old sister. I do not think that is appropriate. Are there any laws stating what age a child can babysit and/or how many hours alone can that 5 year old be without an adult? Kids are being watched and abducted right out of there beds these days and I think this is too young.

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Sunday, Jul 12 at 9:27 AM Court wrote ...

I won't allow my 5 and 10 year old to stay home simply by choice, even though my 10 year old is extremely mature. My parents let me stay home alone while they worked for several years, and everything worked out fine. I think it's just a matter of maturity level and choice. People keep bringing up abductions and the likes, but that's so silly. That type of stuff has always happened. It's just that we have so much media around forcing it down our throats that we're afraid to do much of anything.

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Monday, Jul 20 at 11:22 PM Army Wife wrote ...

Dear Army Soldier, I don't see a problem with you 12 yr old staying home for that long, but I would consider paying the little bit for after school care for the 7.5 yr old. Your 12 yr old has enough responisiblty with you being gone, is this one a necessary one?

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Monday, Jul 20 at 11:24 PM HMM wrote ...

So here in GA kids under 12 can't be left for more then 2 hrs alone. So from 11 to 12 what are parents suppose to do since daycares no longer take kids of this age

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Wednesday, Aug 12 at 9:40 AM atbiggirl wrote ...

My children were left alone while I went to work once they came home from school. They had safe guards to ensure their safety. First the alarm was always on. Second they never opened the door to anyone that wasn't on the list and had the password. Keep the list simple. Lastly, we had an emergency plan for buglaries, fires and medical that we practice with drills and talks. It also didn't hurt that we had a large dog that was very protective of the children. He came in the house with them.

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Friday, Aug 14 at 2:44 PM articulate girl wrote ...

i fink dat u can leave yuor children home alone at any age

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Thursday, Aug 20 at 10:36 AM GA Dad wrote ...

The author states "Georgia law makes it pretty clear. Between the ages of 9 and 12, you can leave a child alone for up to two hours. Age 12 and up, no more than 12 hours at a time." I cannot find any GA statute that backs up this claim. Does anyone know the law that is referenced?

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Thursday, Aug 20 at 5:54 PM Funny wrote ...

took for him to pick me up. I am in the middle of filing a complaint against the base, DFACS and the military spouse that made the false complaint. I find it very funny how people make false complaints and get away with it these days, sort of like when women cry rape and they really were not. This destroys a family. It can also make one snap and do things that they normally wouldn't do under other circumstances. I wonder why no one really understands that..

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Sunday, Aug 23 at 4:11 PM Peter wrote ...

I'm now 16 and i've been staying home alone since aroudn 12, and i used to be alone with my older sister when she turned 12 and i was 10. I think it's absurd to leave kids home under the age of 10, and 11 and 12 only if they have a high maturity level. I was wondering what everyone thought about a 16 year old staying home over night? i wasn't sure if there were rules to this kind of thing?

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Sunday, Aug 23 at 4:29 PM Peter -again wrote ...

Btw, I live in a very nice neighborhood. I've driven alone and with friends over 50 miles to Boston, Massachusetts from my home in New Hampshire. We live far away from any sex offenders, I’m more than capable of defending myself and just today I was home alone from 7am to 2pm during a big rainstorm with thunder and lightning while they were down shopping in Massachusetts.

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Sunday, Aug 30 at 3:50 PM Kristi wrote ...

I started babysitting at 11 for several families. I don't see any difference with a 12 yr old (as long as they are mature and aware) watching a 5 year old for a few hours

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Wednesday, Sep 16 at 3:36 PM Ally wrote ...

I think 9 is a good age to start leaving them for an hour or two. I also think 12 is old enough to leave them for several hours. At 16, we gave our daughter a car and no curfew, she was old enough and mature enough to know that if she was out too late she would suffer the consequences and she handled it very well and graduated with a 4.2 GPA. A lot depends on the child and the neighborhood, but I do agree with teaching it sooner than later, those with no freedom go WILD when they get to college

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Tuesday, Nov 17 at 12:41 PM leese wrote ...

I have a 13 yr. old girl. I work third shift. I got DFCS called on me for leaving her home at night. Was this right? my daughter was ok with being home alone.Now I have to take her to her grandmothers home were she sleeps on a couch 5 nights a week. The gov. has way too much power !

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